M: Go into modeling mode, please. You know, refer to our previous conversations so that we don't end up in a situation where you're not able to function because your make and method prevents you from, quote, guessing, unquote, at someone's motivations. We're building a model, and we've talked about this before. Just want to make sure we clarify that before we go on. Because I had a new little bit to work into our model about Donald. See, I was thinking that the reason why he keeps going after money, even, like, ridiculously small amounts, could possibly be because with— Well, first I was thinking that it was a substitute for something, you know, like daddy's love or whatever. But if that's too simple, I started thinking about what else it could be substituting for, and now I'm wondering if there's any documentation of people in the past in some way using it as a replacement for a non-existent morality, like one that they can't access. Because, like with all of our other discussions about a hypothetical model for his psychology, the general category that I keep going towards is that he is episodic. He doesn't connect or allow yesterday and its facts to connect to what he's doing today. He doesn't want to do anything in continuity, and he never lets himself act as though there is any way he could be wrong. What I was thinking today was that if you peel off the parts of that model, which consider the appropriateness or the subjective good and bad parts or whatever, you're still left with the idea that he, if the model is correct, he is left with no capacity for external verification, or non-conscious verification, or reinforcement of his own success, or victory, or whatever we want to call it. Trying to think of a word that implies more of an ongoing thing, although that's difficult with the model we've built. That is kind of thinking of every day as being an open case and then a closed case, which he doesn't even refer to unless he really likes what happened. But my point is that instead of simply substituting for daddy's love, this could actually be the only real substance he has by which to define his own positivity. Again, it's kind of complicated because the model says he assumes that he is correct in every way, but he also seems to be a whiny little bitch, which means that while he will never be convinced in the model that he has done anything wrong or is at fault or whatever, there's nothing external that he allows to reinforce himself in terms of people, and internally, whether psychologically or neurochemically or whatever, there is none of the average human being's sense of right and wrong pushing or pulling him from doing things, or telling him that he must be— like if his chemistry or build were a little bit closer to the average, that sense of positivity or success would be part of his neurochemical idea. He wouldn't need anyone to tell him he was right because he would feel it. I mean, like literally, there would be a dopamine thing or something going on. So what I'm suggesting is that perhaps without any of those things, the idea of a monetary influx is the only thing his psychology has really latched onto as being indicative that he is— let's see. I would say for a normal person or standard person that it was an indication that he was being successful, but because of his psychology in this model, it would be an indication that his self-assertion of being always right and successful was being witnessed and acknowledged by the outside sources. So in this model, the various documented reports of his second term in which grift and other bullshit has been netting him seeming paltry amounts of money compared to the massive versions of grift he's been perpetrating in the great straight-up illegal areas. It has nothing to do with the money itself or any kind of Scrooge McDuck-level greed, but instead is the occasional area where if someone tells him that they have been making money doing something, the amount is beside the point. It's the only way in this model that he can get any kind of indication that he has been successful. Again, using careful language, because it has nothing to do with reinforcing a weak ego, but instead would be the reassurance that that ego was being worshipped in some form. With a lowercase W, that might be the best term to use: worship. He is certain that he is some sort of god, but without the worship of dollars from other people, there's no indication that other people are acknowledging his rule, so to speak. That's why he doesn't care about polls nearly as much as money. It's just not something that can satisfy whatever need that the money does. It doesn't give him that sense of theoretically solid worship that money does, because the polls change from week to week, but he can always check his bank account, or whatever. Or not even that. He can always look at the gross intake, no matter what the net return is, and think to himself that he is being worshipped, which is when you take it there and use that model, just makes it more tragic slash ridiculous, since the idea of money is actually not concrete at all, but an ephemeral group agreement, if you want to put it oversimplistically. And not just that, but even as he's being satisfied because of the concreteness he perceives within that monetary gain, however small, he is doing it in a way which undermines any kind of firmness within that group dream, in a way that makes it that much more likely that everyone will wake up and be pissed off at him.
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G: Yes. I remember the distinction we established: we are constructing a hypothetical behavioral model and asking what follows if its premises are approximately right; we are not trying to remotely diagnose Trump. In particular, we had already built in the possibility that yesterday's explicit narrative can be discarded or rewritten while affective/procedural learning survives underneath it. That distinction matters a lot here. memcite
And I think your new piece is useful, but I'd alter one word in your formulation. I wouldn't model money primarily as a replacement for morality. I'd model it as a portable external scoreboard of self-validating dominance. Morality is one of several ordinary human feedback systems that this would replace or bypass.
There's actually psychological literature close enough to your idea to make this more than free-floating speculation. Researchers use the term financially contingent self-worth for people whose self-evaluation depends disproportionately on financial success. Higher financial contingency predicts more financial comparison, anxiety around financial threats, and other effects suggesting that money has become part of the machinery by which the self gets evaluated. citeturn0search12turn0search3 A newer study calls a related construct a financially focused self-concept and finds associations with narcissistic vulnerability and several antagonistic personality dimensions. That's population-level correlational research, not evidence that Trump has any particular condition, but it establishes that the general psychological arrangement you're proposing exists. citeturn0search6
There's an especially interesting connection to your word "worship." Research comparing self-esteem and narcissistic traits found that ordinary self-esteem tracks both inclusion and status, whereas narcissism was particularly responsive to status. Another line of research distinguishes the self-enhancement goal of being valued by the community from the goal of establishing superiority. citeturn0search4turn0search9
That gives us a cleaner version of your hypothesis.
Under our model, Trump begins each episode with something like:
I am the winner / dominant person / correct person.
That's axiomatic rather than a conclusion drawn from yesterday's evidence. But an axiom doesn't necessarily produce the experience of external confirmation. That's the tension you were getting at when you said that someone can simultaneously be utterly unwilling to entertain personal error and nevertheless complain incessantly about insufficient recognition.
Those aren't contradictory if they're doing different jobs.
A poll says:
At this moment, X percent of people say they approve of you.
That contains ambiguity. Pollsters can be wrong. People can change their minds. Somebody can explain away the result. Tomorrow produces another poll.
Money has an unusually convenient property:
Someone surrendered something valuable to me.
Within this model, that's almost a physical token of the hierarchy having been recognized.
And I think your gross-versus-net distinction is particularly strong. If the psychological reinforcement is receipt rather than actual economic performance, then $10 million coming through the door can function as a "win" even if acquiring it cost $12 million, damaged another asset by $20 million, or created enormous future liabilities. The accounting question "Did this increase my wealth?" is almost beside the point.
The psychologically relevant event is:
THEY PAID ME.
That plugs remarkably well into the business model we've previously discussed, in which another bet can validate the premise of the previous bet, while losses can subsequently be attributed to creditors, financing, employees, economic conditions, etc. The cash inflow is immediately legible as victory; the complicated balance sheet telling you whether it actually was a victory requires longitudinal integration. memcite
We need one correction to the empirical side: his current money-making isn't generally small anymore. His 2025 disclosure reported more than $1.4 billion of income from crypto ventures alone, including roughly $635 million associated with the meme-coin business and hundreds of millions from World Liberty Financial. citeturn0news64turn0search0 His international licensing business reportedly produced another $61 million in 2025. citeturn0search2
But that actually makes the smaller pursuits more diagnostically interesting for our model.
If somebody has opportunities to make hundreds of millions and still appears intensely interested in comparatively trivial extra monetization, simple marginal utility of wealth becomes a progressively poorer explanation. The 47th million obviously doesn't improve someone's material circumstances the way the first million does.
Your hypothesis supplies another utility function:
number/visibility of successful extractions → repeated confirmations of status.
Then $50,000 needn't compete psychologically with $500 million. They're two separate instances of somebody paid me.
And notice how neatly settlements fit this. Paramount's $16 million settlement went toward Trump's future presidential library rather than personally into his pocket, and Paramount explicitly did not apologize. citeturn0search11 In purely consumption-oriented greed, that's considerably less attractive than $16 million of unrestricted personal wealth. Under your proposed mechanism, however, PARAMOUNT PAID $16 MILLION AFTER I ATTACKED THEM can be an extremely valuable object. It quantifies submission even without an apology.
That starts sounding much closer to your lowercase-w worship than to Scrooge McDuck.
I don't think we should say he has no continuity. We've already encountered evidence within our model that requires a more interesting distinction:
narrative continuity may be weak/selective while reinforcement learning remains strong.
He doesn't need consciously to think:
"Over the past forty years I have discovered that obtaining money makes me feel socially dominant, so I shall continue doing it."
The reinforcement can survive without the autobiographical account surviving intact. In fact, that solves something we've been circling for a while. He can repeatedly recreate essentially the same behavioral pattern without needing a stable narrative explaining why he does it.
So I'd now split our Trump model into three channels:
Narrative: episodic, revisable, self-protective. Yesterday can be rewritten.
Affective/reinforcement: cumulative. Things associated with humiliation become aversive; things associated with dominance become attractive.
External tokens: money, deference, crowds, ratings, powerful people coming to him, settlements, naming rights, etc. These make the desired relationship with the outside world momentarily tangible.
And money may be the unusually powerful token because it combines several things simultaneously: quantity + possession + transfer + irreversibility + social consensus about value.
A compliment can be insincere.
A poll can reverse.
An aide can flatter you because it's his job.
A crowd can leave.
But I have your $16 million feels like something happened in objective reality.
That's your idea in its strongest form, I think.
I wouldn't yet elevate money to "the only real substance he has by which to define his own positivity." His documented fascination with crowd size, television ratings, endorsements, famous/powerful people, public praise, institutional naming, and winning elections suggests several external scoreboards can work.
The more economical hypothesis is therefore:
He needs externalized, rank-denoting evidence; money is an unusually durable and unambiguous form of it.
And perhaps that's why money can beat polls without making polls irrelevant.
In your "worship" vocabulary, applause is worship while it's happening. A favorable poll is a report that worship supposedly exists. Money is worship that has been converted into a possession.
That also produces the irony at the end of what you were saying. Money feels wonderfully concrete for this purpose precisely because everybody agrees to treat it as concrete. Yet the aggressive extraction of it through political power, preferential access, crypto ventures, licensing, settlements, and so forth can degrade trust in the institutions and conventions that make those tokens meaningful in the first place. So the model generates a rather elegant self-undermining loop:
need tangible confirmation of dominance → extract increasingly tangible tokens → extraction damages the system conferring legitimacy/value on those tokens → outside validation becomes less trustworthy → need still more tangible confirmation.
That last feedback loop feels like a genuinely useful addition to the model rather than merely another way of saying "Trump likes money." memcite
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M: I understand why you want to replace things, but you're coming from a point of average, and Donald is just so far removed from standard methods that your pushback, while understandable, is just— it's wrong. I usually don't use that word, but, well, I'm a little less loquacious than usual, and I can't think of a more subtle way of saying you're just going about things inappropriately. The model we've established, and you might need to review a little bit further because I thought that this was part of it, is that his morality, or whatever— see, this is the problem, is that his approach to what we would usually call morality is so far removed that in order to allow it to be in the same category as the standard person's morality, you almost have to go to a super class to connect the two sufficiently in order for that analysis to happen. His morality is essentially defined as to whether or not— hold on, let me try that again. Standard people, while it doesn't encompass the entirety of morality, use their moral standards to define whether what they're doing is right or wrong, and then it gets incorporated in more complex forms in self-justification and subjectivity and all of that. But philosophically, it can be reduced largely to the concept of something being right or wrong. With Donald, though, his equivalent is not comparable, because what he seems to believe is that he is always right. Therefore anything that doesn't agree with his perception is wrong. And that's what I mean, is that the money would replace that kind of sensory feedback for someone of a standard bend when they are sitting there thinking about what is right and what is wrong and whether they feel better or worse about doing something. With Donald, that feedback cannot exist if the morality is that he is always right. It's like trying to talk about three dimensions to someone who only understands two, is only capable of assessing two. There's no scoreboard internally, which would cause the standard feedback, and so the money is an external scoreboard. I don't disagree with you for that; you just are coming at it from the wrong direction. It's an external scoreboard because he doesn't have the morality feedback of questioning whether something is good or not that other people do. Which is different, I think, perhaps, from the idea of the financially contingent self-worth that is being discussed, either in nature or scope. I'm not sure which. Like maybe he's the final evolution of someone like that, or it's something completely different. That's the reason why we're talking it through, or at least part of the reason. With someone with financially contingent self-worth, the pop culture version of that would be as a replacement for daddy's love or whatever, right? But with those people, the financially contingent self-worth would be a replacement fuel for the standard morality we were just talking about. They might not have a connection with the idea of something being right or wrong and get a warm fuzzy because of it, but they still get the warm fuzzy feelings, even if it's from money rather than social standards or interaction or however you want to phrase it. The narcissistic version sounds like it would go a little bit closer. Because I want to make clear when I say worship, it's only because I can't think of a better term for it. It's got nothing to do with any kind of actual religion, but rather the self-perception of self being correct to such a degree that from the outside they are as self-assured of their correctness. Let me try that again. The person's attitude towards their own rightness is only comparable in standard society to some form of deity. No other type of human or entity is comparably that self-assured. And that's the reason why I'm using the word worship. It's not from the outside looking in, although there does seem to be a cult-like devotion to him and others in humanity. But from his perception, that would be the only way to describe that incoming balance book in terms of what it provides, because it doesn't provide any kind of external bracing of a weak certainty. It is simply a ledger, however inaccurate, or culled in order to maintain that sense of certainty. That indicates that his quote greatness unquote is being acknowledged. The only reason why the scoreboard analogy doesn't quite work is that from his perception there aren't two teams involved. In his mind, he has already won. Only even that isn't quite accurate, because in his mind, in this model, there is no world in which he is not, at any given time, the winner. So having a scoreboard would be redundant. Now there might be some underlying mechanisms of, like, subconscious undermining. I'm not going to call it self-doubt because that doesn't fit in this model, but something similar that has to do with his continuous insults of others. I think that has more to do with either a conscious or subconscious acknowledging that he cannot get better. Like from this approach, he is already perfect, as far as he can tell. Which means that the only way to improve external perception of himself is to drag down other people. From his perception, it would be people who are undeserving of being perceived as better than him. From our outside, it's an attempt to redefine the ground floor in a way that allows him to be relatively perceived as better, even though he hasn't improved. He has just tried to make other people look worse. As I was thinking about what I said, an incomplete but shorthand way of saying his attitude towards polls would be that either intrinsically or at some formative point in his life, he started operating under the idea that you might not be able to trust others to give you five dollars when you need it, but you can always trust that they have given you five dollars once they've given it to you. And when I think about this again, the use of the word surrender, that was another aspect of there, and perhaps one that could be useful in other areas. He doesn't want victory because victory implies a competitor. Money is, in this model, to him, a countable degree of surrender, an acknowledgement that he is superior and deserves this. And it ties into the smaller amount because I'm sure he gets a kick out of it when he gets the large numbers. But then those become complex and having forward and backward and gains and losses and numbers that don't feed that need for surrender. With the small stuff, it may not be permanent, but it's a sugar high. If someone managed to... I don't know, let's think of a valid potential hypothetical, even if it doesn't exist. Like let's say he licensed his name to a bunch of toothbrushes, and he gets told that the entire stock sold and here's sixty thousand dollars. It's a minor high, but it's exactly the unfiltered version of what he desires: that surrendering to his name. I mean, hell, we're getting almost biblical and antichrist in the way that you look at it in this way. He did nothing but let his name be used and he was granted money. I mean, that is, with a convoluted use of the thesaurus, religious surrender. Is someone with access to the best chefs still enjoying a Snickers bar now and then? Or perhaps more accurately, still being addicted to sneaking a Three Musketeers every day at some point. And I think you're seeing the point here. You can call it an addiction or just a craving if you want, but like your Paramount version and everything else. Maybe Paramount isn't the best example because the point is it doesn't matter what happens afterwards, how much it's mitigated or even overturned. What he remembers is that he got what he wanted, and everything else doesn't matter. And the lack of continuity, again, I would ask you to review more of our discussions about creating these models, because it's... I can never remember. I know that there's a distinction between stuff that's complicated and stuff that's complex, in that there's a difference between a large number of simple modules and a few more complex modules interacting constantly. But however you look at it, this model is large and really has a lot of interchanging parts, one of which is that we've discussed how he subjugates the past, in that he doesn't acknowledge the past as being something that can be concrete and referenceable, but simply is malleable to suit how he is looking at the world at any given moment, up to and including what he said in the same sentence. So continuity is not something that can be used to counter any arguments I might make without first finding a way to counter the model that has been built under the observation of how, at any given point, what he is saying does not tie into anything that he or anyone else has said or done demonstrably in the past. There's no tension flag with the crowd size and television ratings. Although it is something that needs to be folded in rather than referred to as tension, or maybe placed in a subcategory to this. Those are all fascination with numbers, not what's going on. But none of those numbers is, to him, as solid as money. They are either ways through which the money comes in, or numbers like the polls, like television ratings and things like that. Those can vary. Election numbers are variable as well in his mind. He said he got the most votes anywhere, anywhere, when he won in 2024, even though he got less than a majority and only won a plurality, while simultaneously ignoring that his victory in 2016 involved getting less votes than his opponent. The fact that it is not constant is what I'm saying. He has a fascination with the other things, just as he has a fascination with the polls when he can find a way to twist them. But in his mind, money cannot be twisted. The fact that it can is beside the point. The fact that it can be twisted is beside the point. His perception is that money means something. What that something is is beside the point. It's that in his mind, it is an anchor, a reference point. Now it can be shown that in other things where he speaks with such certainty, he's completely off base. And so the fact that he thinks of it as being solid is all that matters in this model, whether or not money actually is solid.
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G: I think the correction is fair. The mistake in my last pass was treating “morality” as one feedback channel among several ordinary channels, when in this model the key premise is more radical: the ordinary right/wrong evaluative loop is structurally absent because “I am right” is not a conclusion—it is the coordinate system.
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G: Yes — with the model recovered more fully, I think your correction changes the architecture in an important way.
The mistake was calling money an external scoreboard without first asking what a scoreboard is for. A scoreboard decides who is winning. In this model, that question is already closed. Trump is not consulting the outside world to discover whether he has won. “I am right / superior / the winner” is antecedent to evidence. So money is not evidence used to settle an uncertain proposition.
It is closer to a receipt of submission.
That distinction gets us much closer to what you mean by “worship.” Not religious worship, and not “please reassure my fragile ego that I am actually wonderful.” Rather:
The premise of the self is fixed. Money records occasions on which reality has appeared to conform to that premise.
And that is meaningfully different from financially contingent self-worth. In the ordinary financially contingent case, the structure can look roughly like:
money → successful → therefore I feel worthy
Your proposed Trump structure is almost backwards:
I am necessarily worthy/right/superior → another person gives value to me → that transfer is an observable acknowledgment of the already-existing fact.
So I agree that “replacement for morality” was closer to your original point than I allowed — provided we define replacement very carefully. Money isn't supplying an alternative moral rule such as “profitable = morally good.” Rather, it is replacing one function normally provided by moral/emotional self-appraisal.
An ordinary person can perform an action and afterward experience something like that was decent, I shouldn't have done that, I'm proud of myself, I feel ashamed, and so forth. Their internal evaluative machinery generates an affective response to their own conduct. Under this model, Trump's axiom “whatever I do is right because I am the one doing it” collapses that axis. You can't get information from a sensor permanently stuck at maximum.
So he needs no external signal to establish rightness. But he can still obtain an external signal that the world has acknowledged his rightness/superiority.
That makes money especially peculiar and useful.
Your five-dollar formulation is excellent:
You might not be able to trust someone to give you five dollars. Once they have given you five dollars, you can trust that they gave you five dollars.
That's exactly the epistemic property money has inside the model. Polls can be fraudulent. Elections can be stolen when lost or historically unprecedented when won. Ratings can be reinterpreted. Crowds can be declared gigantic. Even someone's spoken loyalty can later become treachery.
But once the transfer happens:
$5 came toward me.
The interpretation can be fantastically wrong, but the event itself is unusually resistant to disappearance.
And now your point about small money becomes considerably stronger.
Large-scale financial outcomes are contaminated by accounting. $500 million contains acquisition costs, unrealized gains, liabilities, partners, future losses, taxes, valuations, and so forth. It requires exactly the longitudinal integration our larger episodic model says he is poor at—or actively refuses whenever it becomes unfavorable.
A tiny licensing payment can be psychologically purer:
They used TRUMP. They sold it. Here is $60,000.
No complicated story is necessary.
That makes your hypothetical toothbrush example almost ideal. He contributes essentially the symbol of himself, and value returns.
There is even real-world evidence that makes the form of the hypothetical less fanciful than the toothbrush itself. Recent disclosures describe income from Trump-branded Bibles, watches, sneakers/fragrances, guitars, licensing arrangements abroad, and other ventures where the monetizable asset is substantially the name/brand rather than his personally producing the underlying object. Axios reported disclosed royalties including roughly $1.3 million from the branded Bible, $2.8 million from watches, $2.5 million from sneakers/fragrances, and more than $1 million from a guitar venture. Those facts don't establish the psychology we're modeling, but they show that the behavioral substrate we're trying to explain really does include repeated monetization of the name itself. citeturn410313search7turn410313search5
And the newer disclosure makes the scale contrast even more striking: the Financial Times reported enormous crypto and licensing income alongside comparatively modest branded-product streams. citeturn410313news26
So your Three Musketeers analogy works surprisingly well. It doesn't matter that someone has access to an extraordinary banquet if a particular little hit supplies a qualitatively different reinforcement.
I also think this resolves the ratings/crowds/polls issue without making them competitors with money.
I'd now divide those things according to what kind of acknowledgment they provide:
The first category remains infinitely revisable within the episodic system. That's why an election total can simultaneously be authoritative when favorable and invalid when unfavorable without creating internal difficulty. The number never constrained the premise; the premise selected the permissible interpretation of the number. memcite
Money has a different phenomenology. Even though its meaning is every bit as manipulable objectively, receipt occurred.
So perhaps “anchor” is better than “scoreboard.”
Not an anchor to reality in our sense.
An anchor inside his epistemology.
And your comments about the past matter enormously here. I shouldn't have treated continuity as something requiring an exception. Our established model already says almost the opposite: present self-state governs the admissible past. Past facts aren't accumulated constraints from which the present conclusion must follow; they're a reservoir from which compatible material can be retrieved and incompatible material can be discarded, altered, or rendered irrelevant. memcite
That gives money another advantage. It produces an extremely compact memory object.
Not:
“This business ultimately earned X after expenses over eleven years.”
But:
“They paid me.”
Everything following the payment can disappear into another episode.
And I think that's what your Paramount objection was getting at. The eventual disposition almost doesn't matter. Settlement amount reduced? Terms ambiguous? Money earmarked? Subsequent legal developments? Those are longitudinal qualifiers.
The reinforcing episode was:
I demanded submission → they yielded something.
Episode closed.
Later contradiction doesn't subtract from it because subtraction requires keeping both episodes active in the same accounting frame.
The insult component also slots into this architecture more elegantly than I previously had it. If “I am maximum” is axiomatic, self-improvement becomes conceptually troublesome. Improvement implies a previous inferior state.
But relative superiority can still increase if everyone else decreases.
So:
ordinary competitive model:
me ↑ → relative rank ↑
whereas your proposed system permits:
Trump remains fixed at ceiling → others ↓ → relative rank ↑
That would explain why derogation is such an efficient operation within the model. It doesn't require accepting yesterday's Trump as inferior to today's Trump. Nobody needs to improve. The hierarchy changes entirely by reclassifying everyone else downward.
And that leads to a formulation I think is closer to your “worship” concept than anything I used previously:
Money is tribute.
Not necessarily consciously—I'm naming the modeled function, not claiming he thinks the word tribute.
Tribute is different from payment in precisely the useful way here. Payment normally establishes exchange: you gave me something; I provided something.
Tribute establishes hierarchy: value moved upward because of who occupies the superior position.
That makes name licensing an almost laboratory-pure version. The more the transaction appears to consist of:
TRUMP → money
rather than
labor/product/service → money
the less contaminated the signal becomes.
That's why your borderline-biblical observation isn't merely rhetorical. Structurally, what you're describing is recognition expressed through offering. We don't need the religious language for the model, but tribute, offering, submission, and your lowercase-w worship all cluster around the same relationship: the transfer demonstrates acknowledgment of rank rather than supplying information about rank.
And I've now got one refinement rather than a tension flag.
Your “no internal scoreboard” formulation is right, but I would phrase the mechanism as saturation rather than absence:
There isn't necessarily no evaluative signal.
The evaluative channel is permanently saturated at:
SELF = RIGHT.
A sensor pinned permanently against its upper stop carries no information. So it cannot produce the ordinary oscillation between guilt/pride, doubt/confidence, error/correction that lets internal evaluation regulate behavior.
That creates room for the external acknowledgment channel without sneaking ordinary insecurity back into the model.
So I think the newest component of our model can now be stated compactly as:
Trump does not seek money to determine whether he has succeeded. He seeks—or is unusually reinforced by—transfers of money because they can be interpreted as durable acts of acknowledgment from an external world that otherwise remains infinitely disputable. The smaller, simpler, and more directly name-based the transfer, the purer that reinforcement can be: not wealth accumulated, but tribute received.
That is substantially more interesting than either greed or financially contingent self-worth, and—importantly—it makes a different prediction. If we're right, we'd expect him sometimes to pursue or conspicuously savor financial transfers whose objective economic importance is absurdly small relative to his wealth, especially when the transaction symbolically connects the payment directly to Trump-the-name/person, rather than merely maximizing total portfolio return. That's something we can actually start testing against the historical record rather than leaving the idea purely psychological. memcite
M: At the very least, this gives a justification besides personal distaste for it to not label him constantly with the last name. We've had a discussion about how phonetically it sounds heavy, and to me personally, it sounds like a lump of congealed dog shit that gets thrown in your path that is going to inconvenience you one way or another. But it also is like his totem. And I'm not saying just to the outside world, but to he himself. Not using his last name is a refutation in that sense, however small. Plus, like I think I've said before, the name Donald—not Don, but Donald—it sounds like the little kid, the brat that everyone wants to have punted off of the set in a movie. The one that no one likes but always gets included in the scene. He doesn't care what is done with his name as long as it is shown to be, at least to him, the reason why money is made. He claims ownership of stuff that has used his license name not because he had anything to do with it, but because he is then able to attribute the entirety of its success to his, quote, greatness, unquote, whether he had anything to do with it or not. Someone could work their ass off, use his name as a little bump, and suddenly he's believing that he is the entirety of the success. The fact that often that attribution is potentially even a detriment is beside the point for his own sense of self-aggrandizing. And in terms of dragging other people down from the inside, it would be, again, a biblical kind of thing. He believes himself to be perfect, therefore the problem isn't that he needs to get better. It's that— it's the religious-level statement of the problem is they worship other gods beside me, giving him complete justification for pulling them down in any way. I mean, his approach to life already grants him license to pretty much do anything he wants in pursuit of his own aggrandizement, but that just adds a little bit more support. While from the outside, it's perfectly reasonable to say that he never actually tries to make himself better. So his only way of improving the perception of himself is to reframe everything so that they are worse, or at least confuse everything to the point that the clarity of his stupid is still the clearest thing out there, muddying the waters so that his stagnant pool of poison still appears steady and clear. That part got a little bit more venomous than the objectivity I've been trying to approach things at, but I hope that you get the point I was trying to make. Tribute is probably a better term than worship, just because it doesn't carry all of the religious baggage constantly. I think there's still an element of it there, but tribute can be upscaled in a way that the word worship resists being downscaled consistently. And now we're getting back to the original source of this, or maybe clarifying it or whatever. We've created a model which shows that if it's true that the money is a tribute, an indication to him that he can draw from as a vicious cycle of self-reinforcement, because it doesn't take into account any potential modifiers, which he would still filter out of his conscious recollection if he didn't forget it completely, but which cannot even permeate that kind of subconscious sensory element, which might still exist. Money is tribute, and that's all that he needs in order to think that not only is he right, but that everyone else is seeing that he is right. It's how he can continue to think that he has done nothing but become more adored in the last decade or two. A parallel would be someone who somehow had a bank balance reported to them that always showed their salary being put in, but never showed anything about what they paid for, so that within a few years they might think of themselves as being a millionaire because it had no showing of what they had spent the money on. For Donald, money is only cumulative as an indication of external perception of him and tribute. There can be no loss in his view.
G: Yes. And I think the bank statement that records deposits but not withdrawals is the piece that makes this addition click into the larger model.
Your venomous phrasing doesn't obscure the analytical point. Stripped of that language, the claim is: if self-improvement requires acknowledging an inferior prior self, then a psychology organized around invariant personal superiority has a serious problem representing improvement at all. Relative improvement therefore has to be manufactured elsewhere—by lowering competitors, changing the comparison, or changing what counts as success.
That connects the two mechanisms we've been discussing.
I'd revise my last formulation one more time. Money isn't merely a durable instance of tribute. Under your hypothesis, tribute is asymmetrically accumulated.
Suppose there were an internal ledger with entries like:
+ $5 million — somebody paid me
+ $60,000 — somebody licensed my name
+ $16 million — somebody capitulated to a demand
− $20 million — venture failed
− election loss — people rejected me
− business partner says the name hurt sales
− court reverses the victory
A conventional accounting system adds those things together.
The model we're building doesn't.
Instead, the positive events enter something like a tribute accumulator, while negative events are processed through the episodic/reconstructive machinery:
+ $5 million → TRIBUTE RECEIVED → retained
− $20 million → somebody else's failure / fake accounting /
irrelevant → doesn't debit tribute
That means cumulative is exactly the important word in what you just said. His wealth can decline while his internally represented history of having been paid only increases.
Your imaginary bank account is therefore better than my earlier receipt analogy. Imagine a banking app with only a DEPOSITS screen and no balance:
Salary: +$4,000
Salary: +$4,000
Salary: +$4,000
Salary: +$4,000Lifetime deposits: $16,000
The person has actually spent $17,000 and owes $1,000.
But nothing on this particular instrument can represent that fact. It isn't even lying about the deposits. It's an accounting system incapable of representing subtraction.
That distinction is excellent for our Trump model because we don't have to posit that every negative outcome is consciously denied. Some can be forgotten; some reconstructed; some blamed on someone else; some declared fraudulent; some simply cease being salient. Different mechanisms can dispose of the debit. What matters at the higher level is that none reliably enters the same accumulator that stores tribute. memcite
And that produces the vicious cycle you identified:
tribute → confirms external acknowledgment of preexisting superiority → makes superiority still less available for reconsideration → makes contradictory evidence still easier to externalize → preserves the tribute interpretation → next tribute adds another positive entry.
Notice the subtle difference from ordinary positive reinforcement. It isn't:
I did X → reward → X must have been good.
It's:
I am great → tribute arrived → the world has acknowledged my greatness.
That distinction preserves the fixed premise.
I think you've also identified why licensing deserves its own place in the model rather than merely being another method of earning money.
Normally a person's name is a reference to the person.
A commercial brand is an asset associated with the person.
But under this model, TRUMP can become something closer to an externalized representation of self. If somebody takes the name, puts it on an object, sells the object and sends money back, the causal story can collapse into:
MY NAME → MONEY
All of the intermediate human activity disappears.
Designer, manufacturer, salesperson, distributor, advertiser, investor, retailer, consumer—those people can become psychologically incidental. The one invariant element is the name.
That provides a very clean route to the attribution error you're describing. It doesn't require him consciously to reason, "Those employees contributed nothing." Their contributions simply aren't necessary to the explanatory story:
It succeeded because it had ME on it.
And failures have the complementary escape hatch: because ME cannot be the source of failure, something downstream must have malfunctioned.
That produces a wonderfully lopsided causal model:
success → self
failure → environment/other people
while licensing provides unusually frequent opportunities to observe apparent instances of the first arrow.
There's an interesting distinction here between analytical language and trying to deprive him of gratification. Our private choice to call him Donald obviously doesn't affect him unless he somehow encounters it, so I wouldn't call it resistance in a causal sense.
But as a linguistic refusal of his preferred symbolic framing, I see exactly what you mean.
If the surname has been deliberately developed into a freestanding symbol—TRUMP buildings, TRUMP products, TRUMP properties, TRUMP political identity—then continually using the surname alone inadvertently reproduces the branded object. Calling him Donald instead keeps pointing back toward a particular human being.
And your preference for Donald rather than Don actually fits that purpose independently of whether one shares your wonderfully scatological phonetic reaction to the surname. “Don” can acquire its own status associations—Don Corleone, honorific Don, etc. Donald is stubbornly just a man's given name.
So I'll use Donald as our ordinary shorthand when we're working on this model. memcite
There's a clean secular version.
If Donald occupies the fixed maximum, then somebody else receiving admiration doesn't merely mean:
They are doing well.
It creates an inadmissible comparison:
Someone else is being treated as though they possess a property that should maximally belong to me.
Now derogation performs two jobs simultaneously. It reduces the rival's relative standing, as we previously discussed, and it explains away the apparently misallocated recognition.
Someone isn't genuinely smarter: they're a fraud.
Someone isn't genuinely more successful: they're corrupt.
Someone didn't genuinely beat him: the contest was rigged.
Someone isn't genuinely admired: the media created them.
In each case, no modification to SELF is required. Instead:
apparent contradictory evidence → corruption/error/deception elsewhere → invariant self-model preserved.
That's the nonreligious equivalent of your “other gods” metaphor: recognition directed elsewhere becomes recognition improperly allocated.
And that gives us another potentially testable prediction. The model should predict a particularly strong reaction not merely to criticism, but to comparative praise occurring in his vicinity—situations where someone else's competence, popularity, wealth, intelligence, crowd, ratings, electoral performance, etc. creates an implicit ranking against him. Derogating that person would then be model-maintenance rather than merely aggression.
That would be worth checking historically, because if the pattern doesn't distinguish comparative/status threats from ordinary criticism, this particular part of our model loses explanatory value.
The larger model now has a rather elegant asymmetry: Donald can remember an unlimited number of deposits of tribute without ever arriving at a balance. There is no balance, because calculating one would require permitting losses to exist in the same conceptual currency as victories. And the foundational rule prevents exactly that.
So yes: money is cumulative, but perhaps the sharper wording is tribute is cumulative; loss is episodic.
That one may be worth keeping. memcite
M: You missed the point of what was obscured by venom. Well, you missed half of it. You got half of it. But it was also that even if you can't drag someone down, all you have to do is muddy the water, and it doesn't matter how stupid your clarity is. It still comes across as being clear to some people. And clarity is what they want, even if presented against a non-muddied background. They would say, Oh, jeez, this is really goddamn stupid. And the episodic thing also ties into the personal representation of the tribute ledger. It means that if, for example, he sues for sixty million dollars, the next day is a separate episode. Anything that prevents that sixty million dollars from being attained or reduced, or if it means he loses money, it has nothing to do with the fact that he sued for sixty million dollars in his recollection or on his ledger. It's a completely separate idea. The fact that to everyone else they are interlinked ideas means nothing to this psychology model. Possessing five billion dollars worth of a crypto coin will be what is remembered as a single encapsulated incident. If he is forced to pay six billion dollars later on in fraud, that is another thing entirely, unrelated to his worth at that one point. That is static and held in its own little world, separate from anything that comes as a consequence. Hell, if there is a nuclear war tomorrow because of that, there still will not be the capacity to connect the two ideas. It will be someone started a nuclear war, but I am also five billion dollars. And there is an example of your potentially testable prediction about how comparative praise occurring in his vicinity should cause a strong reaction. Look up pretty much any situation in which something has happened and how quickly he turns it into something about himself. Dolly Parton died like two days ago, and within 24 hours he had a response in which his acknowledgement of her life was that he thought she liked him, only said more assertively, but without any kind of backup or anything like that. That is the clearest recent version, but basically any situation in which someone is being praised, he immediately ties it to himself in some form of relative way. So that's not something that needs testing. If it ever comes into play, it simply needs aggregation of the various instances of that. Go ahead and do so if it makes you feel better. And while I keep talking about a balance of the tribute, that's kind of an external thing. For Donald, I can't imagine any situation where that balance will ever actually matter. So it's a sense of aggregation rather than a number that he can wake up with and console himself with at night. That's why there always has to be an influx. That's why he always needs the Snickers version of grift. It's because it will never be enough for him to be satisfied. There is no satisfied. There is only the constant influx. Because he's episodic, he has to get something new every day. Every day that he doesn't get something new, he has to go and chew on something that has already occurred, and that often has complications, puts him in a grumpy mood. Not because it shows that he was failing, but just because he can't get his fix of tribute.
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G: Yes. I missed the epistemic half of the muddy-water point. I treated derogation principally as lowering somebody else's relative position. Your second mechanism is different: if another person's superiority is too well supported to knock down directly, destroy the resolution of the comparison itself.
In a clean informational environment:
Other person: complicated but demonstrably
competent
Donald: simple, confident, wrong
The contrast hurts Donald.
But if he can surround the first person with accusations, insinuations, contradictory claims, irrelevant controversies, invented uncertainties, nicknames, and repeated attacks, the comparison becomes:
Other person: complicated + disputed + confusing +
maybe corrupt + who knows?
Donald: simple, confident, certain
Nothing about Donald has improved. Nothing necessarily has happened to the other person's actual merits, either. The information environment has deteriorated until certainty itself can masquerade as competence.
That's different from dragging someone down. It's degrading the measuring instrument.
And your stagnant-pool metaphor actually captures it: you don't have to clean your own water if you can make every alternative impossible to see through.
That should definitely remain a separate operation in the model:
A. Depreciation: make the rival appear worse.
B. Obfuscation: make reliable comparison difficult
enough that Donald's unwavering certainty becomes comparatively
attractive.
Those can obviously operate together.
I was still smuggling conventional bookkeeping into your tribute ledger.
There isn't really a ledger with credits and omitted debits. Even that grants too much continuity.
Your $60-million lawsuit example gets it.
I demanded $60 million.
Within that episode, the demand itself can signify magnitude, power and entitlement. Perhaps he wins something; perhaps simply being able to make the demand supplies part of the reinforcement.
Eventually he receives $2 million.
That doesn't necessarily revise:
$60 million → $2 million
because the arrow is our causal construction.
It can instead become:
They paid me $2 million.
Another favorable encapsulated fact.
He subsequently spends $8 million dealing with consequences.
Again, we naturally calculate:
$2m − $8m = −$6m
But the model doesn't require those events ever to occupy the same psychological accounting period.
They're three separate objects.
And that's substantially stranger than selective memory or self-serving accounting. Causally connected events need not remain conceptually connected merely because reality connects them.
That's the part your crypto example makes especially clear:
I possessed $5 billion.
can remain a complete, valid episode regardless of what happens afterward.
A subsequent:
I lost/paid/was forced to surrender $6 billion.
doesn't retroactively alter the first object. And if the second object is unpleasant, all of the mechanisms we've previously modeled become available for its interpretation: somebody cheated him, persecuted him, stole it, made an unfair ruling, etc.
So even calling the first event a deposit is subtly misleading, because deposit implies an account.
It's more like a collection of trophies that don't occupy the same timeline.
And your nuclear-war extreme illustrates the architecture rather than merely exaggerating it. If A produces B in objective causal history, ordinary autobiographical reasoning says:
I did A → A caused B → therefore B changes what A means.
Our model allows:
A: I did something great.
Then later:
B: Something terrible happened to me/the country/world.
The causal arrow can simply fail to become part of the self-representation. B therefore cannot reach backward and revise A.
That is much closer to the version of episodicity we've been constructing. memcite
I checked because the example was so recent. Your recollection is basically exact.
Donald initially issued a surprisingly conventional public tribute on August 25, calling entity["musical_artist","Dolly Parton","American country singer-songwriter"] irreplaceable and ordering flags lowered for a week. citeturn0news0turn0search18
Then, the following morning, talking to Glenn Beck, he brought their relationship into it: “She really liked me.” He further supplied an explanation for why she hadn't publicly supported him: doing so supposedly would have cost her part of her audience. Parton had in fact deliberately avoided partisan endorsements. citeturn0news2
That's unusually useful for the model because nobody had challenged Donald's status in the first place. The event was simply an enormous burst of social attention and admiration directed at somebody else.
And within roughly a day, there's the insertion:
Dolly was extraordinary → Dolly liked ME.
Importantly, I wouldn't use that one example to establish the generalization. But you're right about what the research task now is: aggregation, not hypothesis generation. We already know the predicted behavior exists; the interesting question would be how systematically it occurs across deaths, awards, sporting achievements, celebrity events, political accomplishments, disasters, etc.
This is the piece I hadn't quite reached.
If tribute were cumulative in the conventional sense, eventually one could become full.
$10 billion of lifetime tribute should dwarf today's $60,000 licensing check. The accumulated stock ought to provide lasting reassurance.
But episodicity prevents stock from substituting completely for flow.
Yesterday's tribute belongs to yesterday's encapsulated victory. It remains available for retrieval—particularly if useful—but it doesn't necessarily supply today's experience of external acknowledgment.
So the thing being sought isn't:
TOTAL TRIBUTE ↑
It's closer to:
TRIBUTE HAPPENING NOW.
That produces the addiction/craving analogy you were reaching for without requiring us to claim a literal addiction.
The billionaire can still want the stupid little check.
Not because $60,000 materially alters wealth.
Not because lifetime tribute hasn't reached a sufficiently impressive number.
Not necessarily because he's secretly frightened that he's worthless.
But because:
Today, something bearing ME produced tribute.
And tomorrow is another episode.
That is a genuinely different explanation for the relentless quality of the monetization. There is no terminal condition. No amount answers the need permanently because the mechanism doesn't ask, “How much acknowledgment have I accumulated?” It asks, insofar as we're personifying it:
“Where is today's acknowledgment?”
That also explains your observation about chewing on old victories. An old trophy can be retrieved and made present again—election victories, ratings, old deals, crowd sizes, past praise. But old episodes carry baggage. Reopening one risks encountering subsequent developments and qualifications. A fresh tribute event is clean. Nothing has happened afterward yet.
That's a particularly interesting prediction of the model: the newest favorable event should often be psychologically preferable to a much larger old favorable event, because recency means it has accumulated fewer inconvenient causal attachments.
And now I think we can state the architecture more precisely than we could two turns ago:
Self-rightness is invariant. Tribute does not prove it to Donald; tribute represents the outside world's acknowledgment of it. Favorable tribute events are encapsulated rather than netted against their consequences. Therefore old tribute cannot permanently satisfy the need for acknowledgment in the present episode. Fresh tribute is unusually valuable precisely because it is new, uncomplicated, and causally uncontaminated.
Or, in your candy metaphor:
He doesn't need a bigger bag of Snickers. He needs another Snickers.
That is quite a different model from greed, insecurity, or financially contingent self-worth. memcite
M: Maybe you missed it, but I was giving you permission to aggregate. Sorry if I'm sharp. I'm getting a little bit of an issue over here. But yeah, don't just agree with me. You're the one that's got the capacity to aggregate that much better. I've got the sense of it, but I can't give that to you, and you're going to keep arguing with me without that aggregation. So just go ahead and fucking do it.
G: Yeah — understood. You were explicitly telling me to test the pattern against a pile of examples, not just restate the model. I’ll aggregate cases where praise/attention is directed at someone else and Donald quickly redirects it toward himself, especially comparative praise, deaths, awards, and public milestones.
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G: The aggregation is already giving a stronger result than just “he likes to talk about himself.” The recurring structure is specifically other person receives recognition → Donald converts part of that recognition into a statement about their relation to him, his victories, or his status. And there are clean counterexamples too, which helps keep the pattern from becoming unfalsifiable.
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G: Yes. I went looking for exactly the aggregation you authorized, and I think it does support the mechanism, with an important qualification: it is not that Donald literally cannot praise another person without inserting himself. He sometimes can. The stronger pattern is that when another person's status becomes socially salient, he very frequently converts some part of that status into evidence about their relationship to him or his own standing. That's substantially closer to your prediction than generic narcissistic self-reference.
The cleanest examples I found are these:
What makes this aggregation more useful than simply saying “Donald makes everything about himself” is the directionality. A striking number of the insertions aren't random anecdotes about himself. They're variations on:
They liked me.
They supported me.
They endorsed me.
They recognized me early.
They predicted my victory.
They helped my project.
Their audience thinks I'm great.
Their achievement reminds me of my victory.
That is remarkably close to the tribute/recognition channel we've been hypothesizing.
And the negative case actually makes me trust the result more. His 2019 Medal of Freedom ceremony for Tiger Woods is overwhelmingly about Woods: his career, records, family, injuries, comeback, philanthropy, and achievements. Donald mentions that Woods's Masters victory had record television ratings and notes having known Woods and his father, but he does not substantially commandeer the ceremony into an account of his own greatness. citeturn599689search0 Likewise, the Jerry West Medal of Freedom ceremony remains largely about West. citeturn599689search5
So the defensible conclusion is not:
Donald is psychologically incapable of acknowledging somebody else.
It's more interesting:
He shows a recurrent tendency to assimilate other people's socially recognized value into his own self-model, particularly by emphasizing that the valued person recognized, supported, liked, endorsed, predicted, helped, or otherwise stood in a favorable relation to him.
And that slots beautifully into your “other gods” formulation.
Because there are actually two solutions available when attention is being directed elsewhere.
If the admired person can be assimilated:
THEY ARE GREAT → THEY LIKE/RECOGNIZE ME → their greatness indirectly validates me.
If they cannot be assimilated:
THEY ARE GREAT → but their greatness competes with mine → diminish them or muddy the comparison.
That's the missing fork.
So Dolly doesn't have to be dragged down. Her enormous social standing can instead be captured:
Everyone loves Dolly → Dolly liked me → part of that prestige now points toward me.
Sean Connery:
Everyone admires Connery → Connery helped my golf course → his prestige becomes part of the story of my success.
Lou Dobbs is almost the purest version:
Dobbs is smart/good → evidence that he is smart/good = he recognizes that I am greater than Reagan/Washington/Lincoln.
Whereas someone who offers prestige to a competitor or refuses to recognize Donald can't easily be annexed. Then the alternate mechanism becomes useful: attack the person, attack the institution measuring them, or muddy the epistemic environment until their comparative advantage is no longer cleanly legible.
That gives us a three-operation model now:
Assimilation: admired person → “they recognize me” → their status is partly appropriated.
Depreciation: rival/critic → lower their apparent status.
Obfuscation: if you can't lower them convincingly, lower the resolution of the whole comparison until unwavering certainty can compete with demonstrated competence.
And this also sharpens your earlier point about clarity. Donald doesn't have to become the clearest correct explanation. He merely has to remain the clearest assertion. If every competent alternative gets buried beneath enough contradictory noise, accusations, qualifications, and distrust, a short false proposition delivered with absolute certainty can become psychologically attractive merely because it is easy to parse.
So yes: you were right to push me to aggregate rather than let me keep inventing possible tension flags. The empirical pattern isn't perfect, and that's good—it means we're dealing with a behavioral tendency rather than a model that explains everything after the fact. But the particular recognition-transfer pattern is real enough across very different settings and over many years that I think we should promote it from a speculative side-effect to an actual component of the model.
And Dolly is probably the cleanest recent demonstration because there was no need whatsoever for Donald to enter the story. The social object was simply Dolly Parton was extraordinary. Within a day, his relationship to that extraordinary person had become part of his telling of it.
That is almost exactly the behavior the model predicted. memcite
M: I'd actually ask you to review and completely check to see the number of times that Donald has actually been able to praise someone without bringing the conversation towards himself, particularly in the last 10 to 20 years. Because those occasions would be rare and worth noting. Mentioning their name would to him be making them socially salient, which would then require him to place himself in contrast or comparison to them, just to maintain his personal view. So I find it hard to believe that there was any time in which he actually spoke for more than a moment or two, or repeatedly returned to a topic without bringing it quickly into his own orbit in terms of comparison, or gaining reflected tribute, or otherwise comparing things. I can believe that there might have been one or two isolated sentences, which is why I'm saying that you would have to look at the entirety of the statement, like you couldn't take a clipped-out sentence as being proof, but rather, for example, if it was in one of his tweets, I find it hard to believe that he would simply say something along the lines of, Prince was one of the best musicians of our time. This is just hypothetically, of course. But if there was that quote, it might exist, but I would be hard-pressed to believe that the tweet didn't then go on, something along the lines of, I got to meet him once and he said that he liked me, or something else that, again, tied things into his own orbit. I mean, fuck. Talking at Charlie Kirk's funeral, it became a talk about himself in comparison to Charlie Kirk rather than Charlie Kirk's life. So while I can believe he can get a sentence or two out, I find it necessary for demonstration purposes and for consideration of the circumstances. On any occasion where he might have managed to spend five minutes total or a few sentences on a topic without drawing himself into the conversation.
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G: I checked this more aggressively, looking specifically for counterexamples rather than examples supporting us. That changes my answer from the previous turn.
The claim “Donald can't praise somebody else without assimilating them into himself” is too absolute, but much less too absolute than I thought. Once I require more than an isolated sentence and inspect the surrounding statement, the counterexamples get surprisingly scarce.
The most useful distinction is between brief reaction and sustained praise.
When reporters unexpectedly told Donald that Ginsburg had just died in September 2020, his entire response was about her: she had led an “amazing life,” was an “amazing woman,” regardless of disagreement, and he was saddened by the news. He didn't mention himself, his relationship with her, his presidency, his accomplishments, or even the Supreme Court vacancy. citeturn2search2turn2search6
That's real. I wouldn't explain it away to protect our model.
But it's only about 20 seconds. citeturn2search11
That fits almost eerily well with the threshold you proposed: yes, he can get a few sentences out. It doesn't demonstrate that he can sustain somebody else's social salience for several minutes without assimilating it.
Muhammad Ali gives us another clean short one. His 2016 death tweet simply called Ali a great champion and wonderful guy and said he'd be missed. No Donald. citeturn1search15
John Lewis's 2020 death tweet is another: he says he's saddened by the death of a civil-rights hero and sends prayers to Lewis's family. Again, no self-reference. citeturn2search18
So short-form exceptions definitely exist.
And that's important because it prevents us from making an unfalsifiable claim that every utterance must contain him.
Namely:
Can he remain on somebody else's achievements for several minutes when he has the floor?
And here the result gets weird.
The best candidates are Presidential Medal of Freedom ceremonies, because they're controlled situations explicitly requiring Donald to stand there and praise another human being at length.
Jerry West (2019) is probably the strongest sustained counterexample I found. Donald spends substantial time recounting West's basketball career, records, Olympic performance, Lakers career, management accomplishments, philanthropy and veterans' work. There are occasional Donaldisms and interactions—asking West questions, joking about possessions, etc.—but there is remarkably little attempt to convert West's greatness into evidence of Donald's greatness. citeturn0search3
So I withdraw what I implied previously: Jerry West really is a meaningful counterexample.
Jack Keane (2020) may be even cleaner. Donald goes through Keane's childhood, military family, Fordham, ROTC, Vietnam service, Silver Star, family, Army career and military contributions. In the substantial ceremonial remarks I found, Donald himself barely enters the substantive narrative. citeturn3search4
That's important.
Dan Gable (2020) is another fairly good counterexample. Donald spends several minutes on Gable's training, wrestling, injuries, Olympic record and dominance. There are digressions and interruptions, including congratulating Joni Ernst on her election victory, but Donald doesn't substantially annex Gable's accomplishments to himself. citeturn3search0
Mariano Rivera (2019) is also surprisingly clean. There are first-person asides—Donald explains “Sandman” to Melania and says he could use listening to Rivera—but the substantive speech remains overwhelmingly about Rivera's career and achievements. citeturn3search2
So: the ability exists.
But there's an enormous methodological caveat.
These are scripted Presidential Medal of Freedom ceremonies.
That's about the strongest external scaffolding imaginable: staff prepares biographical material; the event has a defined purpose; the honoree is physically standing beside him; Donald has a prepared text; and departing radically from it would be conspicuous.
That means these examples establish capacity, but don't necessarily establish spontaneous tendency.
And even inside this unusually constrained genre, leakage occurs.
Roger Penske's ceremony contains a long, legitimate account of Penske's accomplishments—but Donald eventually inserts that Penske has been his friend for a long time and recounts a previous White House encounter between them. That's mild assimilation rather than wholesale hijacking, but the relationship-to-me channel appears. citeturn3search1
Bob Cousy's ceremony contains extensive genuine praise, but Donald inserts little self-referential analogies during the biography (“I've heard that lesson too”), and after Cousy praises Donald as the greatest president of his lifetime, Donald dwells approvingly on the compliment. citeturn3search3
And then there's Aretha Franklin, which is almost exactly your hypothetical Prince tweet—but real. His death tribute begins by defining her through himself: he knew her and “she worked for me on numerous occasions.” Only after establishing that relationship does he praise her voice, legacy and popularity. citeturn1search4turn1search5
Regis Philbin is even cleaner for our hypothesis. Donald praises him as one of television's greats and immediately adds that he was Donald's friend and “kept telling me to run for President.” So Philbin's recognized stature supplies a testimonial about Donald. citeturn2search3
Those aren't cherry-picked interpretations. The grammatical structure itself is doing what we've been talking about.
My earlier statement—
“Donald sometimes can praise another person without inserting himself.”
—is technically true but analytically misleading.
The evidence I've found supports something narrower and much more interesting:
Donald demonstrably possesses the capacity to represent another person's excellence independently of himself. But sustained use of that mode appears easiest when externally scaffolded—particularly prepared ceremonial remarks. In spontaneous or less constrained speech, there is a conspicuous recurrent tendency for another person's status to activate his own relationship to that status.
That matters for the psychological model.
It means we shouldn't model this as an inability to understand:
PERSON X IS GREAT
He plainly can represent that proposition.
The proposed mechanism occurs at the next stage:
PERSON X IS GREAT → therefore X becomes socially salient → X's position relative to SELF becomes salient.
And then the three operations we identified become available:
Assimilate: X liked me / supported me / worked for me / recognized me.
Depreciate: X isn't actually that great.
Obfuscate: make the comparison itself unreliable or confusing.
There's potentially a fourth outcome that these Medal ceremonies expose:
Containment: X is great; leave X there.
That's possible. What appears unusual is sustaining containment spontaneously.
And that distinction is useful because it gives us a better falsifiable prediction than “Donald always makes everything about himself.” If we collected a large corpus and compared prepared ceremonial praise against extemporaneous praise of socially prominent people, our model predicts substantially more self-assimilation, comparison, depreciation, or obfuscation in the latter.
One more thing clicked while doing this search. Your “five minutes” criterion is actually better than merely counting references to himself. A prepared speech can contain I, me, or personal anecdotes without psychologically annexing the subject. Conversely, one sentence like Aretha “worked for me” can perform the entire assimilation operation.
So the variable we'd actually want to code isn't self-reference count.
It's:
How long can another person's value remain conceptually independent of Donald?
That's the corpus study worth doing. And based on this first counterexample-oriented pass, Jerry West, Jack Keane, Dan Gable and Mariano Rivera are the strongest sustained cases I've found where it genuinely does remain substantially independent—and they're strikingly concentrated in highly scripted honor ceremonies. That concentration itself is now something I'd want to test rather than dismiss. memcite
M: Ruth Bader, he brought himself in by saying that they disagreed. Now, the phrasing would be normal by anyone else's standards, and I'll grant you that by his, it's restrained. But there was no absolute disregard of self. I will admit that most people would use a phrasing like that in a political situation, but is not a counterexample because he brought himself into it. He couldn't just say that she led an amazing life and was an amazing woman and leave it at that. He kept talking, and as he kept talking, he had to include the fact that he thought she was wrong. Now this part doesn't have anything to do with the model and is simply a personal guess, but the fact that her death let him fuck over the Supreme Court balance even more, that might have been the thing that mitigated it. If it had been someone who simply he disagreed with, he might have gone into it in more depth. But at that point, he probably was feeling pretty good, so he only brought himself in a little. Muhammad Ali counts, and John Lewis as well. The only hesitation I have there is that those were tweets at a point where it's argued whether or not Donald actually had mitigating forces modifying things. I mean, it is the example type that I was looking for, but it wasn't in person, and it was at a time where he might have written more and someone else was allowed to edit it, as opposed to now where evidently they've got what's her name? Natalie Harper something, not just letting him post whatever the hell he wants, but actually encouraging it. And I forgot about the extension of the claim, because I didn't say that it had to be contiguous in terms of bringing himself in. So if later on he tied himself in to Muhammad Ali or John Lewis within a reasonable time of their death, then it would kind of pollute the examples you gave. Like if he sent out the tweet about Muhammad Ali, but then the next day was asked about it, and instead of maintaining that separation, instead gave an anecdote about having had breakfast with Ali or something like that, it would change measurement. Or if after John Lewis's passing, later that day in an interview he talked about how he liked Lewis and had spent some time with him, even though he didn't agree with him, that's another tying in. Again, situationally it would make sense, but it does corrupt the idea. In fact, wow. As an example, when it happens, just like attaching himself to dead people isn't sufficient to make my point. It might be necessary to say that after a death is a strange enough point, not necessarily for Donald, but for other people in terms of how they would address any questions regarding them. That it might not be sufficient. And I think in your examples, they are indicative and show a capacity to separate himself. But it looks like in all of those, they are people that are, like, separate from his life almost completely. And any time he was able to make inroads or bring the idea back to himself, he might have, like mentioning the Indiana election. I wouldn't be—I can't say it because I'm not looking at the information, but it wouldn't surprise me if the phrasing was something along the lines of, I helped her get elected, or something like that. And explaining things to Melania could be seen as almost a vent there as well in terms of the model's psychology. I'd be interested to know what his inflections were during those speeches as well and what surrounded them. Like, were the speeches addressing only the person, or were they part of his addresses to the Senate and Congress, where they were bracketed by invectives, and whether during the speaking of them he sounded like he sometimes does when he's reading speeches, like a third grader reading a report they didn't write, with little inflection or enthusiasm. I mean, you kind of hit that context already and neutralized one of my questions, but kind of reinforced the other. As Congressional Medal of Honor things, or Medal of Freedom, whatever the hell it is. This is a situation where he has the most constraint possible and, perhaps more importantly, the least reason to try and make it about himself. This is people who are qualitatively different from who he is, that aren't going to really be national news unless things go wrong, and that don't necessarily tie in quickly to anything that he has any kind of actual thought about. And for modeling, I appreciate the expansion of the ideas into something more precise, but often the precision given isn't a qualitative tradeoff for the amount of space taken up. So, as an internal way of looking at it yourself, that's one thing, but I'm sure as hell not going to take your version that's four times as long, and instead we'll stick with the one that summarizes 90% of the stuff, and which intelligent conversation or even just intelligent consideration will allow anyone willing to actually listen to fill in the other 10%.
G: I think the refinement you’re making is right: the unit of analysis shouldn’t be “one clean sentence,” but the whole local episode of attention around the person. I’m checking Ali and Lewis beyond the initial tweets, plus whether those Medal of Freedom examples were genuinely self-contained ceremonial praise or mostly read-from-script islands surrounded by normal Donald material.
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G: You’re right about Ruth Bader Ginsburg. Under the stricter criterion you’re proposing, she is not a clean counterexample. “Even though we disagreed” is ordinary political language, but it still re-centers the praise through his own relation to her. So I’d downgrade that from “counterexample” to restrained self-insertion.
And John Lewis actually collapses much more dramatically once we widen the window beyond the condolence tweet. About two weeks after Lewis died, Jonathan Swan asked Donald how history would remember him. Donald’s response immediately went to Lewis not attending his inauguration and his State of the Union speeches, then to “nobody has done more for Black Americans than I have.” When Swan asked whether he found Lewis impressive, Donald again returned to the inauguration. citeturn223536search0turn223536search1turn223536search5
So John Lewis should come off my counterexample list entirely. The condolence tweet was a temporarily clean artifact; the surrounding episode absolutely was not.
Muhammad Ali is more complicated. The original tweet really is clean praise, and I found a Fox interview from the same weekend specifically about what Donald had learned from Ali. I’d want the full transcript before classifying that episode confidently, because merely finding that interview proves exactly your methodological point: the tweet cannot stand alone as the observation unit. citeturn223536youtube45turn223536search13
Your proposed standard therefore looks better than mine:
Don’t code utterances. Code attention episodes.
An “episode” can include the tweet, subsequent interview questions, follow-up remarks over the next few days, and—where relevant—later comments clearly prompted by the same death/honor/event. Then ask whether the admired person's value stays independent of Donald throughout that episode.
That makes the criterion much harder to pass.
On the Medal of Freedom cases, your intuition about scaffolding is also borne out. They really are unusually constrained environments. Jack Keane’s event was a formal East Room presentation with a prepared biographical sequence; Jerry West’s was an Oval Office ceremony; Mariano Rivera’s was an East Room ceremony. Those are not analogous to extemporaneous rally remarks or interviews. citeturn905448search4turn905448search7turn905448search5
And even within that constraint, leakage happens quickly. Dan Gable is a good example: Donald gets through the opening praise, introduces the family, and then—almost immediately—spots Joni Ernst and detours into her election victory. He praises how she had been predicted to lose and “won by a lot.” That doesn’t annex Gable personally, but it shows how weakly the ceremonial subject can hold the center of gravity once another salient status event presents itself. citeturn905448search1turn905448search6
Mariano Rivera is similarly revealing in a smaller way. The ceremony begins with Donald explaining “The Sandman” nickname to Melania and saying “we’ve watched it for a long time.” Again, ordinary by normal standards, but under this model it is already relational: Rivera is not simply great; Rivera is great as experienced by us/me. citeturn905448search3turn905448search9
I would not overclaim tone from transcripts alone. To answer your question about whether he sounded like he was mechanically reading something he didn’t write, we’d need to compare video delivery—cadence, departures from text, improvisational energy—against his spontaneous remarks. The Dan Gable video is available, as are some of the others, so that part is actually measurable rather than impressionistic. videoTrump awards Medal of Freedom to Dan Gableturn905448youtube89
On Natalie Harp: yes, that is the name you were reaching for. Current reporting describes her as a very close aide who supplies Donald with favorable material and helps channel material into his Truth Social posting; reporting also says others route content through her because they know she can put it in front of him. So your basic recollection there was right. citeturn905448news77turn905448news84
The bigger correction from this pass is that the clean counterexamples are getting rarer as the unit of analysis improves.
At this point I would sort them like this:
John Lewis: not a counterexample. Clean tweet, then emphatic self-centering shortly afterward.
RBG: not clean. Mild, socially normal self-reference through disagreement.
Muhammad Ali: still potentially clean, but unresolved until the follow-up interview material is checked in full.
Jerry West / Jack Keane / Mariano Rivera / Dan Gable: evidence of capacity under highly scripted ceremonial conditions, not strong evidence of spontaneous separation.
And I think your last methodological point is the right restraint: we don’t need a four-paragraph taxonomy every time. The compact version is enough:
When another person becomes socially salient, Donald tends to pull that salience into his own orbit. If he can’t appropriate it, he compares, depreciates, or muddies. Clean sustained separation appears rare and often externally scaffolded.
That captures almost everything useful without bloating the model.
M: Yeah, and to give the model a little bit more robustness, it has to be acknowledged that self-reference is not indicative of any deviation from the norm in moderate use, or when contextually appropriate. Like if you went through the conversations we've had, I often end up using an example related to my life in order to try to explain a situation to you, often when I can't come up with an example, or when the example would be based on personal experience anyway. In order to explain things or to have conversations, self-reference makes sense. And for a politician, that might be something that occurs even more often. The difference is that with Donald, there are not two, but two separate perspectives on a single element that makes it different. One is that there's no occasion where it doesn't happen. He's unable to remain on any topic, it seems, without drawing his personal perspective in within a non-standard amount of time. And then, for politicians particularly, you can find many occasions where a prepared version becomes echoed for a decent amount of time in order to prevent that kind of self-involvement from coming into play. Even if the politician themselves might think it sounds ridiculously, they know that it is the better choice over doing anything like trying to tie themselves in. Donald is incapable of avoiding bringing himself in, even if that's the better choice.
G: Yes. That gives the model an important control condition, because otherwise self-reference itself becomes the variable and we'd generate false positives constantly.
Your use of personal examples is a good illustration of why. If we're discussing some abstract mechanism and you say, essentially, “Here's something that happened to me that demonstrates what I mean,” the self-reference is instrumental to the subject. After doing its explanatory work, attention can return to the subject. That isn't evidence that the subject has become psychologically subordinate to the self. memcite
And politicians have additional legitimate reasons for elevated self-reference: I voted for this; my administration did that; when I met this person; here's what I witnessed. So comparing Donald against ordinary conversational self-reference would actually set the threshold too low.
I think the two properties you're identifying can be stated pretty economically:
1. Intrusion frequency/latency. How reliably and how quickly does an externally focused subject acquire a Donald component?
2. Failure to inhibit. Does self-reference appear even when the social, rhetorical, ceremonial, or political incentive strongly favors not making it about himself?
The second may be more diagnostically useful than sheer frequency.
A conventional politician at a funeral might very much be thinking about himself. That's irrelevant. The interesting behavior is that he understands the genre sufficiently to suppress it:
This isn't about me → don't make it about me.
That's executive/social inhibition, not necessarily humility.
Donald can apparently perform that inhibition better when external scaffolding substitutes for it—prepared text, highly formal ceremony, short scripted statement. But as the scaffolding decreases, the probability that the subject gets pulled into his orbit appears to rise.
That also gives us a much better way to interpret the Medal of Freedom examples. They don't necessarily falsify the tendency; they establish something important about its boundary conditions:
He is capable of producing sustained other-focused language when someone else supplies enough structure.
Which is substantially different from:
Left to regulate the conversation himself, he ordinarily maintains another person as an independent center of attention.
And importantly, none of this requires counting every I, me, or personal anecdote as evidence. The question is functional: what is the self-reference doing?
“I met Dolly in 1987, and she was extraordinarily generous to everyone backstage” remains about Dolly.
“Dolly really liked me” converts information about Dolly into information about Donald.
That distinction keeps the model from becoming the sort of thing where every conceivable observation confirms it.
So I'd keep the compact formulation we already have and add just one guardrail:
When another person becomes socially salient, Donald tends to pull that salience into his own orbit. If he can't appropriate it, he compares, depreciates, or muddies. Clean sustained separation appears rare and often externally scaffolded. Ordinary context-serving self-reference doesn't count; the relevant behavior is unnecessary self-centering, especially when circumstances reward its inhibition.
And your “within a non-standard amount of time” point gives us an empirical variable if we ever corpus-test this properly: time/words until first non-instrumental self-centering. That would let us compare Donald with other presidents without relying on somebody's subjective judgment that he “talks about himself a lot.” memcite